Overthinking Kills Self Confidence

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23 Oct 2021
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Believe me when I say that having this tiny reminder of yourself. In a sense, it's a mandatory self-note. Remember, this will help you in finding yourself in the future. #ThinkWithNiche

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Overthinking Kills Self Confidence

The ability to overthink everything is the worst ability that humans are born with. Happiness is suffocated by overthinking. Human beings' most cowardly tendency is overthinking. Most of us are blissfully unaware of the disaster that overthinking brings into our lives. Even if you have everything you want in life, overthinking has the potential to destroy it all.

How does overthinking destroys self-confidence

Our body, soul, and heart are directly connected to our thoughts. And whatever you feel and think has a direct impact on your body, soul, and heart, of course, this unwillingly happens.

Control your thoughts

If you succeed in controlling your thoughts, you can manage to experience balance in your whole body. Controlling your thoughts gives you an instant shot of glow to your mind, body, soul, and heart. If you overthink and are not able to control what you think, you will somehow find yourself on a path of self-destruction.

Overthinking kills self-confidence

Self-confidence is procured by immense practice. And overthinking can kill self-confidence in seconds. Overthinking and self-assurance are two aspects that go together. Despite the fact that we aren't aware of it, it all works together.

Control overthinking

If you can control other aspects of your life, you can also control your thoughts. It will take some time to adjust, but you must practice regulating your thoughts when they are abnormal or unnecessary.

How does overthinking kill self-confidence? Having self-confidence is the best thing. But some people work on their self-confidence for several years and still don't gain positive outcomes out of it. The answer to your problems lies only in overthinking. If you unlock the key to overthinking, you will instantly see yourself grow and bloom in all walks of life.

You have a tendency to overthink things, and you may have thoughts like, "I'm not good enough, what will happen if I do this, what will other people say behind my back, what will I do if I lose my job, what if I die tomorrow, what if my girlfriend cheats on me, how will I pass this exam, how will I lose weight," "How will I pass this exam, how will I lose weight," "What should I wear to the next party I'm not invited to There is an enormous amount of WHAT IFS, HOW'S, and WHAT'S.

Breathe and give yourself a break

Relax, take a deep breath, and give yourself a really well rest. You can't feed your thoughts and destroy your self-confidence on a regular basis, willingly or unwillingly. Is it necessary for you to ask yourself, "Am I happy?" What do I need to do to improve myself? What is the reason for the change?

Know what you want

Instead of having an unwanted spread of thoughts that will only doom you later, you must know what you want in life. Make a list of things that belong to your negative and positive qualities; this will undoubtedly assist you in analyzing the real you and overcoming self-doubts. Remember that self-doubts are multiplied by overthinking, which damages and kills your self-confidence.

Give a piece of advice to yourself

Tell yourself that I am the best thing ever, I can do it, there's nobody like me and I have the right to control my thoughts, feelings, and life altogether. I possess the innate power to handle myself. There's nobody who can beat me. In my kingdom, I am the king or queen. I have the right to modify, grow, and control my life on my own.

You need to give a boost of advice to yourself and remind yourself that how precious you are every day. Believe me when I say that having this tiny reminder of yourself. In a nutshell, it's a mandatory self-note. Remember, this will help you in finding yourself in the future.

TWN In-Focus